It’s Ninja season – not only on television, but for our constantly-climbing-or-hanging-from-something children đ! Summer is a time we’re tempted to “slack” in our relationship with God, but it’s also an opportunity to “up the tension” by reading a challenging book, studying a passage you usually avoid, or intentionally researching a world or cultural issue that makes you uneasy. How are you upping the tension this summer?
(Originally posted October 2017)
From the first episode we watched, our family has been obsessed with âAmerican Ninja Warriorâ. This action-packed obstacle-course competition challenges athletesâ agility and strength – especially their upper-body and grip strength.
Our children, desiring to follow in the footsteps of newfound heroes like Jessie Graff and Meagan Martin, could be confused with monkeys based on the large amounts of time they spend âhangingâ out on the obstacles in our backyard. Having small bodies that haven’t proportionally caught up to their arm muscle limits yet, they make a row of monkey bars or a trip across the âninja lineâ look like a breeze!
Knowing we have no chance of keeping up with our kids, Tim and I have begun issuing each other daily âninja challengesâ – the first of which was to hang (yes, just hang) from the ninja line for 10 seconds (yes, just 10 seconds). It sounds easy, but hanging from this slackline is no simple feat!
And that’s because there’s too much slack. This line is adjusted to hold up our children, but our adult weight and height require us to work that much harder to stay off the ground. There’s not enough tension to hold us up!
It turns out a little tension can be a good thing.
A relationship is defined as the connecting line between two things and the relationship between God and human beings has a long history of tension. Most of the time, we think of this as a bad thing because, after all, tension = tense = stress = bad. And as Christians, we expect our connection with God to be good, not bad! But since Heâs God and weâre not, some level of tension is always going to be present.
Hereâs how it happens:
Many of us grew up learning Sunday School truths about a God who is mighty and powerful and who uses that power to do supernatural things to help people. We hear stories about His great love for us and His plans to guide us, care for us, and meet our needs. Even those of us who came to know Him as an adult, get a âWOW!â first impression of this God.
But inevitably there comes a point where these truths donât seem to be holding up. That supernatural power didnât show up when you needed it. The âloveâ and âcareâ youâre supposed to be experiencing is noticeably absent. Instead of guidance, you hear silence.
The Bible is filled with examples of this tension:
Why do you say, O Jacob,
and speak, O Israel,
âMy way is hidden from the Lord,
and my right is disregarded by my Godâ?
Isaiah 40:27
Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord!
O Lord, hear my voice!
Let your ears be attentive
to the voice of my pleas for mercy!
Psalm 130:1-2
Why have you wounded us past all hope of healing?
We hoped for peace, but no peace came.
We hoped for a time of healing, but found only terror.
Jeremiah 14:19
These cries echo our own experience today. We look around at our world, our circumstances, and our struggles and wonder: âIf You really are âin controlâ, why arenât You fixing this?â or âIf Youâre as âgoodâ as you claim to be, why arenât You showing it?â The tension mounts as we attempt to reconcile who we believe God to be with what weâre seeing of Him in real life.
If you read on a bit further in these passages, youâll find that they all end in the same way:
Can any of the worthless foreign gods send us rain?
Does it fall from the sky by itself?
No, you are the one, O Lord our God!
Only you can do such things.
So we will wait for you to help us.
Jeremiah 14:22
I wait for the Lord, my soul waits,
and in his word I hope;
my soul waits for the Lord
more than watchmen for the morning,
more than watchmen for the morning.
Psalm 130:5-6
Even youths shall faint and be weary,
and young men shall fall exhausted;
but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength;
they shall mount up with wings like eagles;
they shall run and not be weary;
they shall walk and not faint.
Isaiah 40:30-31
The Hebrew word for âwaitâ in these passages means more than the âpassing of timeâ we might think of. Itâs rooted in the idea of âtwistingâ or âstretchingâ and describes the âtension of enduring, waitingâ*. Waiting on the Lord means to remain in the tension – to stay in that place of discomfort and disagreement in your relationship with Him. Because it turns out too much slack is actually the problem.
Slack in our relationship with God happens when we avoid the tension. It develops as we start dismissing the things about God we donât like or that donât make sense to us, forming our own âcomfortableâ view of Him. It grows as we close our eyes to the world around us and sprinkle a spiritual sugar-coating of âGod is goodâ on the situations we donât want to accept. It may feel good for a time, but if that relational line between you and God has too much slack, itâs not gonna hold you up!
Today’s âninja challengeâ involved setting up a slackline (the kind you walk on like a tightrope) in a local park and standing on it for 10 seconds (yes, only 10 seconds – itâs much harder than it looks!). After several very wobbly attempts, we finally cranked up the tension. A couple tries later and an 11-second victory was mine!
If you’re feeling comfortable in your relationship with God, that may be a red flag that it’s time to up the tension. Maybe you need to open your eyes to the events going on in our world, find a mentor, and start asking some hard questions. Maybe turning the crank looks like opening your Bible and studying some of those passages you’ve avoided because they don’t fit with your theology. Maybe it looks like opening up to a trusted friend about your doubts. Or maybe it means you stop sugar-coating and get brutally out-loud honest with God about a situation in your life.
Tension in my relationship with God may not feel good, but it is good. Itâs in the tension that I am pushed to learn things about Him that I otherwise wouldnât have paid attention to. Itâs in the tension where I allow Him to put His finger on the nerves, revealing areas of my life I need Him to do some work on. Itâs in the tension that I start seeing faith as a choice to put my life in Godâs hands even if He doesnât come through in the way I expect Him to. Embracing the tension may seem counterintuitive, but itâs in the âwaitingâ that He holds me up!
*http://biblehub.com/hebrew/6960.htm
Mandy Desilets 